Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Molly Horan. Yet, when people talk about "losing your virginity" as a sexual right of passage, it's almost always discussed in heteronormative terms: A woman gets her cherry "popped" via male penetration, and suddenly, neither of them are virgins anymore. But outside of male-female relationships, what does it mean to "lose your virginity"?
Is it a big deal? Is it no big deal? There are a lot of ways guys see what it means to turn in their V-card. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the average dude will lose his virginity at I know several guys who were virgins when we started college. They all said they thought that something was wrong with them. That they had some kind of sex repellent pheromones.